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POSITIVE SELF-HELP IS DOING YOUR PART SO THAT GOD CAN DO HIS

Trying to pull yourself up by your own bootstraps is doing things the hard way and is the recipe for failure and frustration.

Positive self-help is more than pulling yourself up by your own bootstraps.  It's you doing your part so that God can do His.  It's getting an entirely new way of thinking which results in a new life.

The foundation for positive self-help is a positive self that is in agreement with God about who you are and what you can do with your life.  You are a work in progress, and when you do your part, you can be sure that God will do His.  But first you must step up to the plate and do those things that only you can do.  Doing your part is the essence of self-help.  When you do your part, you give God something to work with.  Until you do your part, God is limited in what he can accomplish on your behalf. 

Not all self-help is created equal, and there is plenty of psychobabel in the bookstores designed to sell books irrespective of whether you have any benefit from reading them.  Some self-help literature makes you feel better even when you are not making any real progress.  Psychobabel points you in the right direction, but does not give you the power to make the trip.

No matter how fast you run, if it is in the wrong direction, you will never reach your dreams.  If the main reason you are using self-help is to create and project a new image, you are heading in the wrong direction. 

You don't need a new image.  You need a new way of thinking and feeling.  You need a new you.

The only way to get a new you is to change the way you think.  You must change the way you think about who you are and what you can do with your life.  Positive self-help is about becoming a new person by changing the way you think.

You need to change the way you think about many things.  When you look at your failures, you need to change the way you think.  When you look at your limitations, you need to change the way you think.  When you look at the past, you need to change the way you think.  When you look at the present, you need to change the way you think.  When you look at the future, you need to change the way you think.  You can change anything you want in your life by changing the way you think.

Positive self-help has three major components.

1.  You develop a positive self-image and positive self-esteem.

2.  You get in agreement with yourself.

3.  You get in agreement with God.

A positive self begins with spiritual birth.  Until you are spiritually alive and dare to call God your Father, you will not know who you really are - you will not know your true identity.  Until you get in agreement with yourself, you will be dysfunctional with your mind wanting one thing and your heart wanting another, while your will flounders in a sea of ambivalence.  Until you get in agreement with God, you miss out on God's dream for your life.  You are a blunt instrument in the hand of a loving God.

A positive self is the starting point in God's master plan for your life.  A positive self in the hands of a loving God can do awesome things. 

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WHAT IS THE MEANING OF POSITIVE?

The word positive has only been around for about seven hundred years.  According to Merriam-Webster, the first known use of the word positive was in the 14th century.  That was about a hundred years before Columbus sailed to America.  Until then, people did not have a positive attitude, because the word positive did not exist in the English language.  Before then they had to use other words to describe a positive attitude.  Probably they simply said that someone had a good attitude.

For me, the word positive means congruent and non-ambivalent.  It's an operational definition signifying that my mind, heart, and will are all congruent and committed to moving together in a non-ambivalent fashion to achieve a worthwhile purpose.

All three components of my personality (heart, mind, will) are heading in the same direction and working together to achieve the same objective.

Congruent is a big word with a simple meaning. The three parts that create your personality are your mind, heart and will.  If those three components of who you are get in agreement, they are congruent.  They all want the same thing, they are all headed in the same direction, they are all working together toward the same objective.

All parts of you must work together and head in the same direction if you want to live your dreams.  If your will, mind, and heart are heading in different directions, then you will be pulled apart and become dysfunctional because you are not in agreement with yourself.  You must be congruent if you want good things to happen.  If your heart wants one thing and your mind wants another, you are doomed to a life of failure and frustration.  Being congruent simply means that we are in agreement with ourselves.  We want something with our heart and with our mind, and we are willing to do whatever it takes to make it happen.

Jesus said that we must love God with all our mind, all our heart, and all our strength.  Our connection with God must involve all parts of who we are.  We have to get in agreement with ourselves about our relationship with God.  When our heart, mind, and will all connect in a congruent fashion with God, amazing things start to happen.  We are fully connected to the One who runs the universe and who has a dream for our lives that is perfect for who we are.  The switch suddenly goes on, and the power of God's love flows through our hearts and minds.  We become new people who think new positive thoughts, take positive actions, and live positive lives.  God points us in the right direction and gives us the power to make the trip.


 

The Positive Self is non-ambivalent.  You are convinced and committed regardless of the consequences.  Your mind is made up and set like flint.  You have a single-minded focus that does not look right, left or to the back.  You know who you are, and you know where you are going.

Ambivalence is the enemy of a positive self.  The ambivalent attitude is like a wave in the sea blown by the wind.  Whenever the wind changes, the waves change.  You can't be like waves of the ocean if you want to have a positive mind.  External forces don't decide which direction you sail on the ocean of your dreams.  You set your course, and you keep on sailing regardless of the direction of the wind.  Ambivalent people are never committed to a purpose.  They just go with the flow, and they end up in Nowhere Land.  A positive mind is always non-ambivalent.  It is convinced and committed to a course of action regardless of the consequences.  Opposition does not deter them because it is solid evidence that they are living their dreams.   Storms don't stop them; they conquer them.  Storms simply confirm they are sailing on the ocean of their dreams.

A positive self is for everyone, not just a privileged few.

Creating a positive self is not a mystery.  When you fill your mind with positive things, it is inevitable you will develop a positive self.  It's that simple.  That doesn't mean it is easy, but it does mean it is possible.  If you really want to have a positive self, nobody can stop you.

This is your opportunity  to take a free course that shows you how to develop a positive self. 

The wheel of change always turns in the direction of what you put into your mind.  Filling your mind with new and positive things can actually change the direction of your life.  You can think new thoughts, experience new healthy emotions, take new actions, and get a new life.

Positive Self-Help.com has links to more than 100 websites that help you become a new person.  This isn't just a mental makeover.  Its a totally new you.

Dr. Dave created a Positive Thinking Network that shows you how to change the way you think.  Visit the Positive Thinking Network and discover the road map to a new life.

Pay a visit to the Positive Thinking University to take short courses that help you develop a positive mind and to listen to positive podcasts.  Everything is free at the Positive Thinking University.

Positive Thinking Psychology is an awesome resource that points you in the right direction and gives you the power to make the trip.  If you get Positive Thinking Psychology in your mind, your life will never be the same.

Positive Christian Podcasts are a great way to send your mind a positive message of hope and love.

Positive Self-Talk tells you what to say when your mind talks to you, and what to say when you talk to your mind.  You can change who you are by changing what you way when you talk to you mind.  Learn the power of Maximum Strength Positive Thinking.

Positive Thinking Radio pushes your mind in a positive direction with more than twenty life changing podcasts.

Zero Tolerance To Negative Thinking shows you how to say good-bye to depression and hello to a positive mind.

Eradicate Depression uses positive graphics to assist you in the battle for a positive mind.

Zero Negative Thinking walks you through the jungle of negative thinking and explains why it is easier to be negative than positive.

Everything Possible Nothing Impossible shows you how to leave the Land of Addictions and Limitations behind, and to come to the Promised Land where all things are possible.

These ten websites are the tip of the iceberg of positive self-help.  Follow the graphic links at the bottom of this page and discover dozens of sites that push your mind in a positive direction.

You are not helpless, and your life is not hopeless.  Anyone can change the way they think, and when they change the way they think, they change their life in an instant.

If you really want to change the way you think, nobody can stop you.

If you really want to become a new person, nobody can stop you.

If you really want to have a positive mind, nobody can stop you.


The wheel of change always turns in the direction of what you put into your mind.  You actually push your mind in a positive direction by putting positive and healthy thoughts into your mind.  If you put enough positive thoughts into your mind, you actually create a positive brain.

A persistently positive focus creates a consistently positive mind.  Your life instantly improves the moment you shift your mental focus to positive things.  The simple act of reading these words and reviewing the power graphics turns the wheel of change in a positive direction, and starts you moving toward a new life.  You have a new way of thinking and feeling.  You become a positive person.
 

POSITIVE THINKING IS THE NATURAL SOFTWARE OF YOUR MIND

Positive thinking works because it is the natural software for your mind.  God designed a  positive software package that would permit your mind to function at full capacity and maximum efficiency.  He created your mind to work best with a positive operating system.

Negative thinking doesn't work well, because your mind was not designed to function with a negative operating system.  Although your mind is an awesome biocomputer, it will not function well using the wrong software.  Severely depressed people run a negative operating system most of the time, and they illustrate how bad things can get when negative thinking takes control of your thoughts.

Positive thinking truly is the right type of thinking.  Positive thinking is more than a good idea.  It's the way your mind was designed to work.  God designed your mind to function best when itís under the influence of positive beliefs.

Positive thinking will not make your life perfect.  It will not make all your problems disappear or prevent serious illness and accidents.  Nevertheless, positive thinking will make your life immeasurably better. No amount of positive thinking will take something bad and turn it into something good; however, positive thinking will turn it into something better.  No matter how negative your life is, thinking positive makes it better.

Positive thoughts are like a giant magnet that attracts good things. The more positive thoughts you put into your mind, the stronger the positive magnet becomes, and the more your life improves.  Positive thoughts donít just pop into your mind.  You put them there on purpose, one thought at a time.  When you fill your mind with positive thoughts, itís not long before a positive operating system is up and running in your mind.


HOW
TO INSTALL A POSITIVE OPERATING SYSTEM

The best way to get a positive operating system up and running is with Maximum Strength Positive Thinking.
 

Maximum Strength Positive Thinking tells you what to say when your mind talks to you, and what to say when you talk to your mind.  You have a lot of things to discuss with your mind, and Maximum Strength Positive Thinking tells you what you should be talking about.

You don't need to spend years searching for empowering ideas that make it possible to live your dreams.  It's already right here in a self-talk format.

The Law of Positive Self-Talk states: "You can change the way you think and feel by changing what you say when you talk to your mind."

Maximum Strength Positive Thinking shows you how to use positive self-talk to create a new life.  When you repeat positive self-talk, you become a different person.  You literally change who you are by changing what you say when you talk to your mind.

If you don't like what you hear when your mind talks to you, you can use positive self-talk to change the message and push your inner voice in a positive direction.  You can make your life as positive as you want.


What you say to your mind is your roadmap to the future.  Each word takes you to a specific destination.  Make sure your self-talk is positive so it takes you where you want to go.

Maximum Strength Positive Thinking is engineered so that you can easily put it into your mind.  Each positive self-talk is short, to the point, and easily memorized so it can be indelibly imprinted in your memory banks and quickly have maximum impact.

Maximum Strength Positive Thinking contains more than 100 Power Graphics that speak the language of the mind.  The Power Graphics go directly into your photographic memory.  Positive self-talk puts good things in your mind one way, and Power Graphics do it in another.  Together they offer a double dose of positive thinking that pushes your inner voice in a positive direction.

If you want to become a positive person, the self-talk and Power Graphics found in
Maximum Strength Positive Thinking can make it happen.  Give yourself a double dose of positive thinking today.
 

 

IT'S TIME TO GIVE YOUR MIND A PUSH IN A POSITIVE DIRECTION

IT'S TIME WIN THE BATTLE FOR A POSITIVE MIND

START CLICKING YOUR WAY TO A POSITIVE MIND


 

Would you like to push your mind in a positive direction and learn how to look at the world through eyes of possibility and love?  Take free courses from Positive Thinking University.com



Positive Christian Psychology is simply thinking the way God thinks.  It's the way God intends for us to think and feel.  It's getting in agreement with God.  Visit Positive Christian Psychology.com

You live in a world ruled by your expectations.  You don't get what you want.  You get what you expect.  Fill your mind with positive expectations.  Visit Power Of Positive Expectations.com

Either you control your mind, or it controls you. When you control your thoughts, you control your life.  Learn how to control your mind.  Visit Positive Thinking Seminars.com.

Free seminar that shows you how to win the battle against depression.  Problems are inevitable, but depression is optional.  Visit Eradicate Depression.com.

Positive thinking wallpaper is a great way to fill your mind with positive thoughts and emotions.  Every time you turn on your computer, you see pictures that make you into a stronger person.  Visit Positive Thinking Wallpaper.com.

Would you like to learn how to change who you are?  Visit Change Who You Are.com.

Negativity blinds you to possibility and is the black hole of the mind.  Visit Zero Negative Thinking.com

Would you like to escape from the Land Of Depression where backward thinking rules? Visit Backward Thinking.com.

Would you like to develop endless persistence and become an unstoppable, consistently positive, endlessly persistent doer of dreams? Visit Endless Persistence.com.



Do you know the facts of love?  You need to look at yourself through God's eyes of love to understand what it means to be one of his children.  Visit Facts Of Love.com
 



More than fifty positive Christian podcasts push your mind in a positive direction and fill your heart with God's love.  A positive heart and mind are only a click away when you listen to Dr. Dave's podcasts.  Visit Positive Christian Podcasts.com
 

Does the shadow of emotion control your life? Do dark and troubling thoughts rule your world. Would you like to say good-bye to depression and hello to a positive mind.  Visit Fight Depression And Anxiety.com



Positive thinking is the natural software for your mind. Discover how positive thinking works, and how you can make it work for you. Visit How Positive Thinking Works.com

Would you like to fly like an eagle on the updrafts of God's love? Visit Flying Like An Eagle.com

Would you like to learn how to eliminate depression from your life?  The battle against depression is fought on the battlefield of focus.  Visit How To Eliminate Depression.com

Would you like to learn how to defeat depression?  Eliminating the negative does not automatically make you positive.  You must push your mind in a positive direction by filling it with positive things.  Visit How To Defeat Depression.com

Would you like to learn how to conquer depression?  It requires years of training to become a miserable unhappy human being.  Get back to the basics of healthy thinking at How To Conquer Depression.com

Would you like to learn how to control your emotions? Although your thoughts control your emotions, it's your emotions that rule your world.  Feeling is believing.  Visit How To Control Your Emotions.com

Would you like to learn how to feel positive? What you think about determines the chemistry of your brain.  When you choose your thoughts, you chose your chemistry.  When you change your thoughts, you change your chemistry. You are not the victim of your chemistry.  You are its creator.  Visit How To Feel Positive.com

Would you like to learn how to control your thoughts? You have a lot of things to discuss with your mind, and everything you say needs to be positive.  Visit How To Control Your Thoughts.com

Would you like to learn how to think positive thoughts?  Do not walk the path of self-destruction by loading your mind with toxic waste.  Fill your mind with good things. Visit How To Think Positive Thoughts.com

Would you like to learn how to control your emotions? For your entire life, you have been pumping emotional iron, and your emotions end up controlling your life.  Visit How To Control Emotions.com

Your emotional mind is an eternal skeptic and must be shown the truth many times before it will believe.  Affirmations overwhelm the inner skeptic and change the way you feel.  Visit Positive Christian Affirmations.com

Jesus is the greatest positive thinker who ever lived.  He created a world ruled by positive expectations.  You don't get what you want; you get what you expect.  It doesn't matter if your expectations are positive or negative.  You will always get what you expect. Visit Positive Thinking Man.com

A positive mind isn't an accident; it something you do on purpose.  In order to have a positive mind, you need to develop a persistently positive focus.  Visit Positive Thinking Checklist.com

You must know what to say when your mind talks to you, and what to say when you talk to your mind.  You have a lot of things to discuss with your mind.  Visit Maximum Strength Positive Thinking.com

The University of Positive Thinking offers free courses to anyone who wants to become a more positive person. Think new thoughts, experience new feelings, take new actions, and get a new life.  Visit the University of Positive Thinking.com

Positive Thinking Radio has powerful positive podcasts that will supercharge your life.  Visit Positive Thinking Radio.com

Learn how to max out on God's love.  Visit Real Power: Maxing Out On God's Love.com

Positive Christian wallpaper is a great way to fill your mind with good things. Visit Positive Christian Wallpaper.com

Three books that can make a big difference in your life. Maximum Strength Positive Thinking, Zero Tolerance to Negative Thinking, and Real Power: Maxing Out On God's Love.  Visit Positive Books For A Negative World.com

Positive self-talk isn't about where you are or where you have been.  It's about where you are going.  You can give your mind a massive push in a positive direction using positive self-talk.  Visit Positive Self-Talk.com

What you listen to makes you into a different person.  You need to turn on the positive mind pump and fill your mind with positive things. Listen to over 200 positive podcasts by Dr. Dave on six different websites.  Visit Positive Thinking Podcasts.com

Focus gives you powerful leverage over your mind.  When you focus on a thought for a minute, you push your mind in a positive direction for a minute.  When you have a consistently positive focus for hours and days, your life moves in a positive direction and you become a new person.  Visit Power Of Positive Focus.com

Overcoming depression is  hard, perhaps the hardest thing you will ever do.  Fighting against depression isn't a stroll in the park; it's a dogfight.  But if you decide to join the fray, you can win the battle and drive depression from your mind.  If you want to have a mind free from depression, nobody can stop you. Visit Quitting Depression.com

Tests always ask the same question.  "Are you willing to do whatever it takes?"   If you answer yes, then you pass the test.  Visit U R Potential Unlimited.com

Whatever you do, you must do it with all your mind, all your heart, and all your strength. Visit Zero Ambivalence Club.com

Problems are inevitable, but depression is optional.  If you really want to have a mind free from depression, nobody can stop you. Visit Zero Depression.com

Affirmations do more than change the way you think.  They also change the way you feel.  They give you the power to change what is in your heart.  Visit Powerful Positive Affirmations.com

A Positive Mental Checklist is your insurance policy for a good day.  Visit Positive Mental Checklist.com

Positive Christian Radio plays the sound of God's Love.  Too Many Drummers is the featured band on Positive Christian Radio.  Dr Dave has more than twenty positive podcasts for your  listening pleasure.  Visit Positive Christian Radio.com

Say good-bye to depression and hello to a positive mind.  Visit Zero Tolerance To Negative Thinking.com


Find out if you are a member of the Life Long Disoriented.  Visit Life Long Disoriented.com.

God is the God of the possible.  Impossible is not in God's vocabulary, and it shouldn't be in yours.  Everything is possible when you think the way God thinks.  Visit Increase Faith.com

 
The Positive Thinking Network Has More Than 100 Positive Websites To Win The Battle Of The Mind



 
 

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AN EXCELLENT FAMILY ADVENTURE THAT INSPIRES YOU TO LIVE YOUR DREAMS.

You can support the Positive Thinking Network by purchasing Dr. Dave's DVD: The Red Sea Chronicles.  The Positive Thinking Network features more than 180 Positive Podcasts and thousands of pages that push your mind in a positive direction.   It's time to get a new way of thinking and feeling.  It's time to fill your mind with positive things. Thanks for your support.

THE RED SEA CHRONICLES - A FIRST CLASS SAILING ADVENTURE

When Dr. Dave isn't working as a flying Doctor for the Indian Health Service, he is sailing around the world on his sailboat.  Find out what it's like to sail on the ocean of your dreams by watching Dr. Dave's DVD - The Red Sea Chronicles.  Put some positive adventure into your mind and push your life in a positive direction.

 

Captain Dave and his family spent eleven years sailing around the world on their Privilege 39 catamaran, Exit Only. During the trip, the crew of Exit Only shot 200 hours of video with professional cameras to show people what it's like to sail on a small boat around the world.

The Red Sea Chronicles is a one hour and twenty-two minute feature film showing their adventures as Exit Only sails through Pirate Alley in the Gulf of Aden and up the Red Sea.  The professional footage documents their experiences in Oman, Yemen, Eritrea, Sudan, Egypt, and the Suez Canal.  It chronicles the rigors of traveling in a remote section of the world rarely visited by cruisers.  Exit Only dodges Yemeni pirates, fights a gale and sand storms in the Bab al Mandeb at the southern entrance to the Red Sea.  The crew explores deserted islands on the western shores of the Red Sea, and learns to check the cruising guides for land mines before venturing ashore.

The Red Sea Chronicles also has outstanding Special Features that include an Instructional Video on Storm Management that tells sailors how to deal with storms at sea.

And don't forget the two Music Videos: "The Red Sea Blues", and "Captain - Save Our Souls".

The Red Sea Chronicles is a first class adventure that stokes the sailing dreams of both experienced and wannabe sailors alike.  Order your copy of the Red Sea Chronicles and experience the adventures of Exit Only as they sail around the world and up the Red Sea.

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