WHEN YOU ARE IN A HOLE, STOP 
              DIGGING 
               
              One of the first rules you learn about driving in sand is that 
              when you are in a hole, stop digging. 
               
              When I started driving in dunes, I frequently got stuck in patches 
              of soft sand.  As a novice, when I bogged down, I spun my 
              tires which made me sink progressively deeper until the chassis rested solidly on the 
              ground.   Only then did 
              my Defender stop sinking. 
               
              Eventually I discovered that if you don't spin your wheels when 
              you first get stuck, you don't sink down nearly as far.  It's 
              much easier to recover a bogged vehicle when 
              it's not buried all the way up to the chassis. 
               
              We developed a damage control rule for everyone who drove with us 
              in the sand.  When the forward motion of the vehicle 
              ceases, you immediately stop spinning your tires so that vehicle recovery 
              will be easier.  When we did it that way, we could 
              usually go in reverse and back out of the sand trap if a couple of 
              people got out and gave the vehicle a push with their hands.  
              Only occasionally was it necessary to use sand ladders, winches, 
              or snatch straps. 
               
              This rule is applicable to life in general.  When you find 
              your self stuck, when forward motion ceases, it's time to stop 
              digging.  If you continue to spin your mental wheels, you 
              will only sink deeper into the muck and mire.   Whatever 
              it was that you were doing before you got into trouble, you 
              must immediately cease and desist.  If you don't stop, you will only sink 
              deeper making it more difficult to get your life back on track. 
               
              You might want to write that rule on paper and look at it several 
              times a day when you are having problems.  If you stop 
              digging and start doing something constructive, it won't be long 
              before you are back to living your dreams. 
  
              
              I really got stuck this time.  
              I drove about fifty feet into soft sand, and the easiest way to 
              recover my vehicle was to hook up a winch.  We could have 
              used sand ladders to extract our bogged Defender, but it would 
              have taken a long time and a lot of effort.  We were about 
              300 kilometers off-road, and we had places to go and things to do, 
              so we took the quick and easy way out. 
   
              
                
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