EXIT ONLY
        
        Over the years. quite a few folks have asked us where we came up with 
        name "Exit Only" for our catamaran.
        
        This is the way it happened.  While I was working in Saudi Arabia, 
        whenever we went on vacation, we had to obtain an Exit-Reentry visa in 
        order to make the trip.  The Exit visa got us out of the country, and 
        the Reentry visa got us back in to resume our work.
        
        There was a special type of visa for people who were leaving the Kingdom 
        of Saudi Arabia and not coming back.  Those folks received an Exit Only 
        visa.  Once you went Exit Only, your work in the Magic Kingdom was over, 
        and you were on a one way ticket to some place other than there.
        
        I worked for eleven years in Arabia, always traveling on my Exit-Reentry 
        visas.  Finally, at the end of the eleventh year, it was time to sail on 
        the ocean of my dreams, and so I got an Exit Only visa and went sailing 
        on Exit Only around the world.
        
        Going Exit Only on board Exit Only was a liberating experience.  The 
        scraping, scrounging, and saving were over, and it was time to live my 
        dreams.
        
        Exit Only proved to be a good name.  It constantly reminded me that my 
        old life was gone, and  that I wasn't going back.  It was time to move 
        forward into new territory.   I had a new life, and I was a new person.  
        I was now Captain Dave, Master and Commander of Exit Only, and it was 
        time for 33,000 miles of global adventure.
 
        
         
        
        
        
        LIFE IS GOOD
        
        When you sail at night, take a good look at the midnight sky.  You can 
        see billions of miles and millions of light years in every direction.  
        From the beginning of time, astronomers have searched the sky for signs 
        of life, and so far the only place where life is known to exist is on 
        planet earth.
        
        
        
        Earth is unique because it’s chock-a-block with life; it’s everywhere, 
        and it’s relentless.  It’s in the air, on the land, and in the depths of 
        the sea.  The reason earth is such an awesome place is because it’s a 
        sanctuary for life in an otherwise hostile universe.
        
        
        Sailing around the world in a yacht allows you to see life in all its 
        glory.  Because you sail in remote locations beyond the reach of the 
        developers and destroyers, you see life in a different manner than city 
        slickers do.  Their version of life is limited to a few birds in Central 
        Park, dogs on leashes, and animals in zoos.  It’s an extremely skewed 
        view of what life is all about. 
        
        
        In cities, it’s hard for people to  appreciate or experience the 
        richness of life as they ride subways and work in concrete jungles.  
        Their constrained view of life is to wake up in the morning, commute, 
        work somewhere all day long, commute again, spend the evening at home, 
        and then repeat the cycle the next day.  When that is their daily 
        routine, they may not even notice that that their planet is alive.  The 
        only living things they see may be people, pigeons, dogs and cats, plus 
        a few cockroaches thrown in for good measure.
        
        
        Contrast that to the life of a sailor totally immersed in our living 
        planet.  He wakes up in the morning to the sound of seabirds in his 
        small patch of paradise.  Sea turtles swim by, and when his sailboat 
        gets underway, porpoises escort him out to sea.  The sea is alive with 
        mahi mahi, Spanish mackerel, and tuna.  When he makes a long passage 
        offshore, wandering birds often rest on deck using his yacht as a 
        floating island.  Sometimes the birds even land on his finger and eat 
        from his outstretched hand.   When he visits the Galapagos, all manner 
        of creatures tolerate his presence totally unafraid because they know he 
        means them no harm.  That’s the way the world was meant to be, full of 
        life that surrounds us on all sides.
        
        
        Now that I am back in “uncivilization”, I am hearing talk about how hard 
        life is.  Wars, sub-prime mortgages, foreclosures, the high cost of 
        health care, drug abuse, political corruption - the list goes on and 
        on.  Unfortunately, I’m not hearing much talk about how good life is.  
        There’s a perceptual problem here.  We are focusing on the dross and 
        slag, when there is pure gold right in front of our eyes.  Life is pure 
        gold, and life is good.
        
        Life is an awesome miracle.  The fact that we are here on planet earth 
        means that we won the lottery of life.  We won first prize, and all of 
        the living things that surround us are our most precious possessions.
        
        When I sailed around the world, the most important discovery I made was 
        that life is good.   Everything that’s alive, including you, is a 
        massive miracle.  Don’t waste your time complaining about the things in 
        your life.  Forget about your woes and worries, and instead, focus on 
        the miracle of life  You are a miracle and you live in a miraculous 
        world.
        
        
        A fitting epitaph at the end of life’s journey would be: “Been there, 
        done that, life is good.”
    
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        GETTING CONNECTED
        
        After living outside the United States for twenty-eight years, I am 
        finally connected.  At least that's what everybody tells me.  You see, I 
        completed my circumnavigation around the world on my sailboat, I'm back 
        in the USA, and I now have a cell phone.
        
        Don't feel sorry for me because I wasn't connected for all those 
        years.   I was connected to other things, and I didn't need a cell tower 
        to feel my life was good.
         
        What 
        exactly did I get when I got connected?  I got an overpriced handheld 
        fit-in-the-palm-sized plastic gadget that I have to carry around with me 
        wherever I go, and whenever it makes noise, I have to pay money.  It's 
        like a slot machine, a no-armed bandit, and every time the cell phone 
        rings, I lose, and the cell provider wins.  
        
        What did I learn when I got connected?  First, I found out that getting 
        connected costs lots of money and staying connected costs even more.  I 
        also learned that in my new world, I can only be connected for 500 
        minutes each month without having to pay another mountain of money.  It 
        turns out that I am connected to a bottomless money pit that would like 
        nothing better than to suck my finances dry.
        
        Being connected does have it's benefits - I do get to talk to my family 
        whenever I want until I run out of minutes or money.  When you're 
        connected, you enter into a time warp in which time is split into two 
        dimensions.  The first dimension is called "ANYTIME MINUTES", and I am 
        only allowed to visit this dimension for five-hundred minutes a month.  
        Apparently this dimension is very crowded, and they won't let me stay 
        longer unless I pay more money.  The second dimension is called "NIGHTS 
        AND WEEKENDS."  I can do whatever I want for as long as I want in this 
        dimension, and it doesn't cost anything extra.
         
        In 
        my new life, special messages appear on my phone from outer space.  They 
        are called text messages, and every time a message appears, money comes 
        out of my wallet.  I have decided that I don't like text messages.  I 
        hope people living in the two dimensions don't send me text messages.  
        I'd rather talk to them while I'm living in the "NIGHTS AND WEEKENDS" 
        dimension.
        
        I don't want to complain about my new life, but I confess I liked my old 
        one better.  I got along fine without a cell phone, and I was connected 
        to other things that talked to me and sent messages without sending a 
        monthly bill.
        
        Take a look at Exit Only sailing downwind into the setting sun with 
        headsails unfurled.  The sails are connected to the wind, and Exit Only 
        is connected to the sea as we slide over the waves heading westward 
        around the world.  I am totally immersed in blue skies and crystal clear 
        water, and I am connected to everything that makes my spirit soar.  I 
        don't need a cell tower to hear the messages that surround me on all 
        sides.  I listen to the sound of the sails and sea, and I know life is 
        good.
        
        I hope I don't get disconnected from my old world; that would be selling 
        my birthright for a bowl of porridge.  I am going to have to come to a 
        new agreement with life.  I already miss being connected to the trade 
        winds, the sea, the stars, porpoises, and pilot whales that I communed 
        with for the past eleven years.  During those years  I didn't have to 
        split my time into anytime minutes, nights, and weekends.  I was 
        connected to everything I loved all the time.  My old world had plain 
        vanilla minutes that worked just fine, they didn't cost anything, and I 
        didn't have to sign a one or two year contract to make it all happen.
         
        I'm 
        sure I will survive the transition into being connected.  After all, 
        I've survived the deep deserts of the Arabian Empty Quarter and 
        Australian outback, and I've survived sailing on the seven seas.  Right 
        now, getting connected is a bit like sailing to windward in forty knots 
        of wind.  It's time to reef my sails, sheet them in, and hang on, 
        because it's going to be a wild ride.
         
        
        Life is good
 
        
        
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